I will unite myself with a standard: that people should reconcile themselves with other people, unless there is a variant fault between them, which is so harbored with strength, that the two of them will be furious with one another.
So if Sam walked up to Bert, and Bert said to Sam, 'I will not unite my course with you, I will go my way, and you will be an offense to me, if you stay with me, unless you be converted to my standard...' then there would be an opposition of such nature, that if they were to come together without such a statement, a great calamity would be rationed in the scenario.
I would say that if people come to the lobby and just want to play a leisurely game of war2, that should be fine. But if they desire to be very competitive, that can be fine too. But the two are oft against one another, so that the former usually doesn't exist. It is recourse, for people to come into a match, and desire to be better than their last meeting, if there was variants with the competition against them. It is necessary, however, for people to understand that if there is behavior among people in the matches that is somewhat awful, or disgusting, there will not be a camaraderie, and there will only be a select few desiring to play at a competitive level.
Alex