looks like a bunch of nerds
At least that part fits. This may mount up the suspicion, but I do have to admit I love nerds.
Know their way around a computer +1
Can fix their own car +1
Intelligent +5
Have opinions other than what they see on TV +5
Have unusual hobbies like rowing or badger rearing or model airplane construction +1
Generally not douchebags who think constantly tearing everyone down makes them cool +1
Like chess +1
Like W2 +3
Value their health +1
Value intimacy appropriately +1
Can hold an adult conversation about a variety of topics +1
Quirky and clever witty sense of humor +1
Can eject ornery intruders from the premises +1
Can create things (instead of just criticize what other have made) +1
The only downside...
Mismatched socks -1