I agree. The consensus is that w2 probably has more weirdos on a percentage basis playing this game than just about any other game.
Moreover, there are definitely different tiers of hosts. Arguably it is justifiable. ex: tvb gow game that's 2v2 pros and a noob watcher joins who is probably retarded and cannot figure out how to ally and ruins the game by building. Or you want a competitive game in chop but 1 guy is bad out of the 8, he gets booted.
Unfortunately the player base is small and unlikely to get larger. Many regulars play on a cycle, so the game always manages to have 20-60 people on. I don't know a good solution. You can attempt to teach the noobs, but in many cases they do not have the capacity to learn or the learning curve is just too long.