I mean, I know a lot of people don't care about nor do they care to even attempt to understand the problem trans people have with people claiming that they're only pretending to be who they personally identify as as a person, but to attempt to put it into perspective, what if you self-identified as a gamer, only to be told you're not a "real" gamer based on completely arbitrary reasons? That you were only pretending to be a gamer, that only people who were born gamers could actually be gamers, and that even if you didn't realize you were born a gamer, you're still a gamer, or that if you weren't born a gamer, but thought you were, you're still not a gamer?