Man we are like that dysfunctional family at the family reunion where everyone bickers and tries to screw the other over. We're stuck with our admins, shit or not. Our bitching hasn't change that (unfortunately or fortunately). We're stuck with our small shitty little community where at least half of the current players have some degenerate mental disease or a list of felonies. It's whatever, we have to make do with what we got. And until someone really steps up and makes a real change, you have to deal with it. No one has gone out and found 100 or so people. I know I found about ~15 over a month period and they all quit due to a really really shitty server experience (personalities of players, unable to host right away, conflicts, large gaps in skills, waiting on games etc).
And until any of you are willing to seriously address this, stop bitching! Or find a new game! This thing is almost over. If we started out with 100 "pro" active players, we're now down to like 40. Players like Shawna and Rit that used to play this game 16 hours a day now play once a month. Stop the drama!